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Mean moments, conflict or bullying?
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A mean moment, a disagreement, and bullying are not always the same. Someone can say or do something hurtful once; a conflict can be a problem where people disagree; and bullying is usually repeated behaviour meant to hurt, frighten, exclude, or control someone.
Bullying can involve a power imbalance or a group pile-on. It can happen in person, in a group chat, or on social media — for example, repeated name-calling at school, people using a chat to freeze someone out, or posts and comments meant to humiliate someone.
You do not have to prove every part of a definition before asking for help. If it feels unsafe, repeated, threatening, humiliating, isolating, or hard to stop, tell a trusted adult.
If there is immediate danger or a threat, seek urgent local help and tell a trusted adult now. This site is not monitored 24/7.
Bullying safety practice
When a cruel Snap is shared around
Practise a calm safety plan for repeated humiliation, threats, or group pile-ons. You do not have to prove it is ‘bad enough’ before asking for help.
Everyone has seen it now 😂
Please take it down.
Make me.
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You do not have to handle this alone
Stop engaging, save the messages if it is safe, use the platform’s normal report or block tools, and show a trusted adult. If there is an immediate threat or danger, get urgent local help now. This site is not monitored 24/7.
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